Tuesday, November 04, 2008

Notes from Germany, Vol.21, 5 November 2008

Dear Friends and Family,

It occurred to me as I was gathering my thoughts regarding what to provide in this current set of Notes that what I am offering here is specific to my individual perceptions. It may well be that the most memorable events that I convey were hardly memorable at all for the other participants. That having been said, I am fully willing to accept ownership of these thoughts and feelings and I am just happy to have some method to record and save them.

The focus of this report will clearly be the trip home that we took this last summer. It was, at 5 weeks long, the most ambitious  vacation we have ever undertaken. During that time we had 2 family reunions, 2 theme park visits, countless meals in restaurants, thousands and thousands of miles covered by airplane or auto, and more memories than I could ever record here. In many ways this trip home was parenthetical; mirroring somewhat the trip that Mindy and the kids took before coming to Germany. Our original plan had us returning home to stay this last summer, but instead we returned home only for a vacation before returning to the place that has become home to us; wild and wonderful Germany.

Our 5 Weeks in America
We have lived in Germany now for more than 3
 years. It therefore seemed appropriate that we would plan for a long visit back in the States. It is not an easy thing to leave a job for 5 weeks for a vacation. Folks might think that if the organization can live without you for that long, then perhaps they can live without you forever. I was concerned, though, that we needed to see as many of our friends and family as we could on this trip, so I asked for 5 weeks off fully 14 months before we hoped to make the trip. My boss, amazingly enough, said yes.

Our itinerary took us from Frankfurt to Los Angeles, where we visited my brother and Mindy’s Grandmother. After a few short days in California, we were 
to fly to Salt Lake City, where we would stay with a friend in Spanish Fork and 
meanwhile visit several of my family in that part of the world. Next up was Twin Falls so that we could visit Mindy’s mom, then back to Salt Lake City to visit Mindy’s other sister. Then it would be back to California for a few more days with my brother. 

And then finally, after 5 weeks of non-stop fun and togetherness, we would head back home to Germany.It was an audacious plan, but it included those things that we felt were most important. We returned far more tired than when we left, but we made a boatload of happy memories, and that, I sincerely believe, was the whole point. During our visit we rode ATVs with Aunt Laura’s family, went swimming with Aunt Karen’s family, visited Thanksgiving point and a water park with Aunt Holly’s family, enjoyed a personal planetarium 
show and a physics demonstration at BYU, had a child wake up Aunt Kristi to say that he had thrown up in her hallway, swam and swam and swam and took family photos at Grandma Strader’s, played with dozens of cousins at a family reunion at Aunt Nadine’s, went to Knott’s Berry Farm with Uncle Gordon, visited, talked, laughed, cried, ate, and occasionally slept. It was a whirlwind tour the likes of which we have never done before, nor likely would ever do again.   But boy was it fun!

Burgers
OK, let’s just get this thing right out of the way. In 5 weeks I gained 10 pounds. Given the amount of physical activity in which we engaged, that is nothing less than extraordinary. How did I do it, you might ask? Good Old Fashioned American Hamburgers! Oh, and lots of other stuff, I’m sure…but it’s the burgers that I remember and dream about and long for…

The fact of the matter is that I ate more burgers over the course of 5 weeks than
 I probably have eaten over the course of the last 5 years. The reason is simple: there were just too many good burger options available. I ate burgers at In-N-Out in California. I ate burgers from Easy Take Out in California and Utah. I even discovered that 5 Guys, my favorite
 burger joint from Virginia, had opened a place near Salt Lake City. So I even had 5Guys’ burgers a time or two (or three…maybe four). All of that, plus the occasional BBQ with family or the burgers that we shared with Mindy’s Grandma (served with fresh guacamole made with avoca
dos from the tree in her back yard…YUM) made burgers the most memorable part of the trip for me. My wife and kids might remember this trip as the time when we spent most of our summer in America, but I will always remember this trip as 5 weeks in hamburger heaven!

Monkey Mountain and Haut-Koenigsbourg
Shortly after returning from our marathon trip to the states, we took a trip with our friend, Doreen, to Monkey Mountain in France. Monkey Mountain is essentially a nature preserve where they keep and study Barbary Macaques. The place is really quite interesting. You park your car, pay the entrance fee, listen to 30 seconds worth of instruction (designed
to keep you from getting into monkey trouble), pick up a handful of popcorn (a favorite monkey treat), and then wander around a park full of monkeys. Every once in a while you encounter a monkey lounging by the path looking rather like an apathetic panhandler. When you do you can place a single piece of popcorn in your hand and present it like a gift to a king.

In my mind the monkeys not taking handouts were even more interesting to observe. We watched an adolescent monkey picking up pieces of wheat that had been strewn by the trail and it was amazing to see the speed and dexterity with which it worked. On occasion, one of the “guides” would stop by and explain some aspect of monkey behavior that was puzzling us. There were baby monkeys that were very, very cute and a bit of a monkey shouting match. Very entertaining.

After spending a good part of the morning at Monkey Mountain we headed about 5 kilometers up the road to a castle called Haut-Koenigsbourg. I have always loved castles, so for me this was the highlight of the trip. The castle was restored early in the 20th century and it was stunning. When I was a kid, every castle I saw in pictures seemed to be either square or rectangular. In real life it’s amazing how very few are that shape. This castle was long and thin as if built to conform to the hill it was built on. It was especially cool to see the photos they had of the renovation and to look over the battlements across the Alsace.

Zig-Zagging Thoughts
Yeah, I’m pretty sure this is the shortest set of notes I have ever done. That’s OK though, because if I waited until I was able to write down everything, I would simply never get to it. I think perhaps I need to start taking life in smaller bits.

School has, of course, started again. We now have two kids in middle school, which seems very, very different. Everyone is doing well in their studies, which makes me very proud. I am teaching Seminary again this year. We are studying the New Testament and I have been absolutely loving it! It takes A LOT of my time, but the payoffs are significant.

Teeth are still a really big deal at our house. Mose has finally had the brackets installed on his bottom teeth. He still doesn’t have enough teeth on the top for brackets there yet. Cory finally lost his two front teeth! Granted it took a great deal of pulling, twisting, yanking, and tugging for Mindy to get them out of his mouth, but it was a price she was willing to pay. Sara will possibly get her brackets off this year. The difference in her teeth is pretty much miraculous. It has cost an arm and a leg, but it has been worth every single penny.

Amazing as it may seem, we are still just as pleased as punch to be living in Germany. Winter is coming and the leaves are changing and the whole world seems to be beautiful. Mindy will be going home for Thanksgiving so that she can be at her brother’s wedding. Me and the kids will be having Thanksgiving with our friends the Lamoureuxs. For all of our friends and family, know that we love you and miss you all.

Sunday, June 15, 2008

Notes from Germany, Vol.20, 17 June 2008

Dear Friends and Family,

It appears that my last post was in October of 2007, which I believe confirms what many of you have known for years…I’m just a schlub. The good news is that I’m still trying to get better, so in that vein I am once again putting pet to paper (or hands to keyboard, as the case may be) to share will all of you some of the exciting things that have happened in our lives since October.
You will probably note the distinct (or is that just stinky) lack of photos in this entry. I have spent almost all of my available free time for the last 3 days trying to figure out how to get individual photos from the Mac to this web page, but without success. I simply cannot invest any more time in this effort, so out it goes completely picture free. Unless, of course, you count the links to our Flickr pages throughout this posting. If you would really like to see pictures, they are all out there on Flickr. Be warned, though, there are lots and lots and lots of them.

November 2007 – A brief summary
I have talked before about the Sauerkrautfest that is held in our village every November. They shut down the main road through town and the town center becomes a mass of carnival rides and vendors. The set up seems to be similar each and every year, but each year we have gone there has always been something there that makes the trip worth while. For me, the only reason I need to go is the sauerkraut and potato dumpling stuff they make. Wow, is that stuff ever good!!!

Of course Sara had a birthday in November, too. She had four friends over for a sleepover, and I seem to recall that it took some time before we were fully recovered. Sara’s primary request for this birthday was an iPod Shuffle. We bought her one and even had a special message engraved on the back. It says “Sara Tillett – Princess in the tower” because Sara’s room is the top-most room in the house. To get to her room you must first go upstairs, then you must climb the spiral staircase that leads to a large square hole in her bedroom floor.

A Very Beautiful Christmas “Chair/Tree”
I hate to say it, but the most memorable thing about this past Christmas was the darned Christmas tree. We started our Christmas tree process in early December because I like having the tree up as early as possible. We bought a $42 tree from the Boy Scouts, but when we got it home we thought it was probably too big for our tree stand. Mindy went out the next day to find a bigger stand. First she went to the exchange on base (no stands), then she went to Dehner's (a sort of garden store, but still no stands), and then finally to the Toom store (rather like Dehner’s, but called Toom). At Toom she picked up a rugged looking stand that was supposed to support a tree of up to 3 meters. Since ours was only 2 meters high, we thought it would do fine. And it did…at first. Then just few days after setting it up and decorating it, on Sunday night to be specific, we heard a crash downstairs after the kids had all gone to bed. At first we thought it was the kids, but when Mindy went downstairs a while later to turn off the dishwasher she saw the tree lying on its side. Luckily only one of our precious ornaments broke, and Mindy was able to glue it back together. It was the ceramic baby shoes ornament that we got for Sara's first Christmas.

Anyway, we looked at the tree stand and it looked pretty broken. We stood up the tree, Mindy took off all the ornaments, and then we set the tree outside while we decided what to do. I felt that the best plan was to take the broken tree stand back to Toom and get another one, so Mindy went back to Toom the next day. We got the new tree stand in place and put the tree in it and put some (but not all) of the ornaments back on the tree. Then just a few days later, the tree fell down again! This time the tree stand didn't appear to be broken, so we stood the tree up, tightened the stand, and then it fell once more. By this point I had my fill of this Christmas tree and was ready to be done. We set the darn thing outside and put a sign on it that said Free (actually Frei, which means Free if you’re a German).

Well the story is not done yet. The next morning Mindy was relating some of our Christmas tree woes to some friends at the school bus stop. One of the folks there had an extra tree stand that he offered to give to us in an attempt to address our tree stand issue. Mindy brought home the stand and set up the tree. She didn’t put any ornaments on at all at first because she just knew that this tree was going to fall again. Some time went by and the tree seemed to be standing just fine. In fact, Mindy would go to the tree every once in a while and give it a shake just to make sure it wasn't about to fall. After a day or so of the tree standing firm, Mindy once again began placing ornaments (but not the precious ones) on the tree. Then a couple of days later Mindy went to the bus stop to pick up the kids and when she got home again, there was the tree laying on it's side FOR THE FOURTH TIME!!! AAAARRRRRGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!

Well by this time Mindy had had enough of that Christmas trees also. She took the tree out into the back yard (where it stayed until after Christmas) and started thinking of some other creative way to do something Christmas tree-like. Some years ago Mindy's sister decorated a grocery cart instead of a tree. Mindy figured if her sister could use a grocery cart, then we could use an old chair, some tables that Mindy had picked up somewhere, and a tiny little artificial Christmas tree that we've had for a while. Personally, I think this is about the best Christmas "tree" we've ever had. The best part is that it never fell over.

Nürnberg (Again) and the Hoarfrost
I know you probably all think that we’ve been to Nürnberg about a million times, but we really do like that city. At Christmas time, Nürnberg has a very famous Christmas Market. I had been before, but Mindy and the kids had not. We were invited by a friend of ours, Sascha, to come to Nürnberg and enjoy the market with him and his girlfriend and of course we accepted.

We arrived at Nürnberg about mid morning and met Sascha and Charien at their apartment for breakfast. Sascha loves to help us to learn about and appreciate German, and particularly Bavarian, culture. The meal was primarily composed of fresh breads, fruit, and white bratwurst (weisswurst). For Mindy and I, the bratworst was the best part, especially the traditional sweet mustard that is served with it. Mindy liked it so much that Sascha let her take the bottle home with her.

At about noon-time, we made our way down to the market in the downtown area of Nürnberg. To be honest, I would be very hard pressed to thing of a time when I have tried to move through such huge crowds of people. It was a Saturday after all, and folks come from all over Europe for this market. The good news is that we didn’t loose a single child the entire day! I also learned how to order the mini-bratwursts that Nürnberg is famous for by saying “drei im Weckle, bitte.” We stayed until after sundown and left for home about the time it was becoming uncomfortably cold.

Speaking of cold, just a few days after that trip we were able to witness hoarfrost. I never new what hoarfrost was before, but now that I’ve seen it I don’t think I will ever forget. Hoarfrost is just frost, except that it forms in long crystal formations that look rather like white thorns. It is beautiful up close, but when the hoarfrost has covered a large area it is an absolutely stunning site! It makes the world white, but not like their had been snow, but rather like someone had gotten crazy with a can of white spray paint. Then as the day wears on, the ice crystals tend to fall off the trees onto the ground directly beneath. The effect is that it looks like snow falling, but only under the trees. Amazing!

Would you like to see more pictures?
Nov/Dec 2007 Photos

Deutsches Museum
During the week between Christmas and New Years, we took a trip to Munich to visit the Deutsches Museum. We left early in the morning and drove hard so that we were nearly at Munich by about 10:00a. We parked the van at a Park & Ride in the village of Dachau, which is famous for being the location of the first concentration camp during the reign of the National Socialists under Hitler. Then we took the train from the Park & Ride to the stop nearest the museum.

The Deutsches Museum was delightful and huge. It was far too big to see everything in one day, but we didn’t let that stop us from trying. We finally surrendered in the late afternoon when the kids could barely walk anymore. I loved seeing all of the different kinds of aircraft and Mindy especially liked the collection of ancient and antique locks. There was an extensive display about printing and printing machines, which got their start in Germany. There was also a dress made entirely from paper. Fascinating!

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Deutsches Museum Photos

Cory’s Baptism
I’m pretty sure that there was some stuff that happened between January and April, but whatever those things were, I have no memory of them now. In early April, however, was a quite memorable event: Cory’s baptism. Cory turned 8 in March, which means that Cory was now old enough to be baptized. He had an interview with the bishop, invited some friends, and on 4 April we went to the church for this most special of events.

There were actually two children who were baptized that day; Cory as well as Emma Ireland. Having more than one family involved sure makes things easier. I printed programs and made arrangements for the building and such, and the Irelands provided refreshments for after the baptisms were complete. Have two children getting baptized also meant that there were an awful lot of people there. The guests included Cory’s best friend from school and a couple of my colleagues from work.

The baptismal service was memorable for the wonderful Spirit that was there, for the fact that this was our last child being baptized, and for the talk that Mose gave on baptism. We asked Mose if he would be willing to speak at Cory’s baptism and he said yes, but we didn’t bug him to much about it until the date of the event started approaching. When we did ask him what he was planning to present, we were pleased and surprised to hear what he was planning. Mose wanted to do an object lesson and so he proposed talking about how moving through life we get dirty, but baptism washes us clean. He also wanted to talk about the idea that baptism is a gate that we must pass through in order to get to the straight and narrow path that leads back to our Father in Heaven and that we will continue to need the Grace of Christ if we are to remain clean. Mindy and I helped only a little bit with things like recommending that he use cinnamon sugar instead of sand to represent the potential for getting dirty. The talk, when he gave it, was insightful, inspiring, and delivered with confidence. During that baptismal service Sara prayed, Mose gave a talk, and Cory was baptized and their parents were very, very proud!

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Cory's Baptism Photos

Spring Break in London
When we first arrived in Germany, we sat down together as a family and discussed what kinds of things we would like to see and do while living in Europe. Mindy wanted to go to Ireland and we did that. I wanted to go to Euro Disney and we did that. Mindy wanted to go to Paris and we did that. And we both wanted to visit London. Now we have done that, also.

We planned and save for this trip for quite some time. The saving part was the most important because with an exchange rate of 2 dollars for every one pound, London is about twice as expensive as it should be. We also looked hard to try and find the best deals on airline flights, hotel, and local transportation. Even with our best efforts, this trip was a bank buster. By the end of our time in London, Mindy had taken to calling me “Mr. Exchange Rate,” since every time she found something that was even remotely tempting, I would launch into a calculation of how much said object would “really cost.”

Given the careful planning, the preparation, and the costs involved in this trip, irony demanded that something had to go wrong. Well that something was the unexpected illness of one of our children. The day before we were to leave, Mose developed quite a fever. He had no other symptoms, really, but the fever was scary enough by itself. We wanted to take him to the doctor before we left, but our doctor was away on vacation (hey, that was our idea first!). After some discussion, we decided to continue with our plan and hope that we wouldn’t need to take Mose to a doctor in London.

Transportation in London was relatively inexpensive, easy to figure out, and available to and from basically anywhere. We used the subway (the Underground, or the Tube) exclusively because there was a Tube station about 50 meters from our hotel and there were Tube stations within walking distance of everyplace we wanted to go. There were many things about riding the Tube that were memorable. You see LOTS of interesting people, the trains run frequently, and everything is in ENGLISH!!!! Well, sort of. We did grow quite fond of hearing the nice lady with the British accent telling us to “Mind the gap.”

The trip to London was relatively uneventful, unless you count our worry for Mose. We took a late flight on Monday evening that got us into London at about bedtime. We found our way to the Tube, rode the train to the stop nearest our hotel, and exited the station. It was a wonderful thing to discover that our hotel was just across the street from the Tube station. Boy that sure made things convenient! The hotel was not plush, but they did have a family room that slept 5. My estimation is that having a family room cut our lodging costs in half. We did a bit of unpacking that night and promptly set off to bed in the hopes of being sufficiently rested for the big Tuesday we had planned.

Tuesday – Natural History Museum
We took our time getting up and ready on Tuesday morning. The Natural History Museum didn’t open until mid-morning, so there was no need to rush. The hotel we were staying at offered a free breakfast (toast, juice, corn flakes, and bran flakes), but they also offered a full English breakfast. The full English breakfast look very nice, but it was also very expensive. We decided that since we would be having five breakfasts at the hotel, that we would each of us have the full English breakfast on one day. Tuesday was for me!

The Natural History Museum was walking distance from our hotel, so after breakfast we sauntered down the road in the direction of the museum. On the way, we encountered Lord Baden Powell House. For those of you who do not have Scouting aged sons, Lord Baden Powell is the founder of the Scouting movement. I believe the building was a youth hostel, but we didn’t actually go inside to check. Instead we took pictures of the statue out front and of the Scout symbol on the side of the building.

Despite our leisurely pace, we still arrived at the museum before it opened. A queue was forming but we wandered about looking at the architecture and reading the posters that seemed to be everywhere. Most of the posters were about a special butterfly house that was open for a limited time outside of the museum. After our wandering, we found our way back to the queue and lined up. Just for the record, entry into the Natural History Museum is free, which is good because every Pound costs about 2 dollars.

In my humble opinion, the dinosaur exhibits at the Natural History Museum were the best that I have seen anywhere! They were truly amazing! We also looked at mammals, reptiles, and fish. I’m not quite clear how we missed the bugs, but I suspect it might have something to do with the fact that none of us really like bugs very much.

We only spent about 2 and a half hours in the museum itself. The butterfly thing looked interesting, so we eventually found our way out to the queue for buying tickets. Yep, the bad news on this one is that it wasn’t free. The queue was about 45 minutes just to get the tickets, but there was not much of a wait once we got started through the maze that led to the butterfly house. The maze was actually pretty cool. There was a lot of information about butterflies and the best part is it was all in English! Yeah!

The butterfly house itself was also very cool! It was hot. It was humid. It was outrageously crowded. But all of that was OK, because there were thousands of butterflies of different shapes, sizes, and colors everywhere. Once again, none of us are really bug people, but we did get Cory and Sara to allow a butterfly on their hands. Mose didn’t like that idea, but he did hold a paper card with a butterfly on it. That’s as close as he wanted to get.

By early afternoon, Mose’s fever was coming back so we opted to take the afternoon off in the hopes that Mose would be better for Wednesday. We really needed him better for Wednesday, because that was going to be a big day for us. We went back to the hotel, the kids watched TV in English, and I went looking for a local grocery store and discovered Sainsbury’s.

For dinner Tuesday night, we ate at the Indian restaurant right there in the hotel. Mindy has had Indian food before and she thinks it’s wonderful. For me and the kids, though, this was our first experience. I had some sort of lamb dish which was pretty good, but then the server asked if I would care for some Indian condiments and I said sure. There was a mint sauce which was OK, but when I tried the lamb with the mango-chutney stuff, I thought I had died and gone straight to heaven. The kids weren’t quite as thrilled with their food as I was with mine, but it was still a very good dinner overall.

Wednesday – Royal Academy of Arts and Wicked at the Apollo Victoria
Wednesday was Sara’s day for the full English breakfast. She rather enjoyed it except for the beans. The one truly surprising thing about the full English breakfast was they served it with what were essentially Pork-N-Beans. I enjoyed them the day before, but Sara worked her way around them.

Wednesday was an important day because we were going to see the exhibit title “From Russia” at the Royal Academy of Arts, and we were going to see the play “Wicked” at the Apollo Victoria Theater. Mose was not quite well yet, but he was getting better. We wanted to see “From Russia” because they were showing primarily Impressionist works from the Pushkin Museum and the Hermitage in Russia. I have not real desire to visit Russia, so seeing this exhibit seemed like a once in a lifetime opportunity. “Wicked” was recommended to us by friends who had gone to see it as a family also and had thought it was marvelous.

“From Russia” was not free, but it wasn’t very expensive. We probably could have walked there from our hotel, but we took the tube anyway. We arrived shortly after it opened, but there was already a queue. The exhibit was well worth the queue, the cost of entry, and even the trip to England. It was positively stunning! Mindy and I have both always enjoyed the French Impressionists and it is mind blowing to me to be able to stand in front of those works. It was amazing how many of these pictures Mindy had studied while she was in college. Her comment was almost always the same…”It looks so much different, so much better in person.” I myself have never been a fan of Paul Gauguin, but now that I have seen some of his works in person I find that I like him even less. Yuck!

Art is fascinating for Mindy and I, but the kids were not too thrilled. There always seem to be a lot of naked women on the walls of art exhibits, so we only spent a couple of hours dragging the kids around the Academy. At around lunchtime we went looking for, and of course found, a McDonalds. To be honest I have never felt much better about McDonalds than I have about Gauguin, but with the exchange rate as it was I was quite happy to find a place where would could all eat for about $40. I think that by the time we finally leave Europe, we will have experienced the very best and worst that McDonalds has to offer around the world! Oh, on this day they were pretty good.

The McDonalds we found was in a train station that was just across the street from the Apollo Victoria Theater. We were too early to pick up our tickets, so after lunch we just kind of wandered for a while. The tickets were available soon enough and eventually we made it in and to our seats. Our seats were in the front of the back section on the right hand side. One nice feather of this theater was that you can “rent” opera glasses for 50 pence, or about a dollar. We rented 3 sets, which pretty much allowed each of us to have a set whenever we felt we needed one. We were allowed to take photos before the show, so we had quite a bit of fun just goofing off with the camera.

The show was just as good as our friends had said it would be! The music was delightful, the storyline was engaging, and the cast was very talented. Mindy and I went to New York once and saw a play on Broadway, but it was even better having all of us together at the theater in London. Events like this make memories that last forever. Sara, of all of us, enjoyed the show the most. We have a CD of the music and I don’t think she has willingly listened to anything else since then. Wow!

Once the show was over, we found our way back to the hotel. After we had rested up a bit, we wandered down to Sainsbury’s (the grocery store) and wandered about marveling at how very American the store seemed. They even had Oreos! We all picked up a pre-made sandwich, some crisps (I think that’s what the English call potato chips) and a few drinks and headed back to the hotel for dinner in the room and a bit more English TV.

Thursday – The Tower of London and Kensington Park
Thursday was a bit of a lighter day since the only major event we had planned was the Tower of London. If there was sufficient time, we were also going to wander a bit around Kensington Park. Mindy had the full English breakfast, the rest of us had toast and cereal, and then we headed for the Tube station and off to the Tower of London.

For Mose and Cory, the Tower of London was the highlight of the entire week and for the rest of us it was pretty darn close. The first thing we noticed when we arrived at the Tower was that it wasn’t a tower. It was more like a castle. As usual, we were early and so we spent some time looking around outside and taking pictures of the London skyline.

Once inside, we spent about 45 minutes just walking around. We went in and looked at the Royal Jewels, but while the “bling” was impressive it wasn’t especially interesting. What was interesting was the tour that we took once we were done. The tour was led by one of the Beefeaters by the name of Mark. Mark was absolutely the best thing about our time at the Tower. His tour was informative, interesting, and very often funny, for example when he joked about Henry the VIII promising Anne Bolin that he would love her for as long as she lived. The humor was sometime macabre, but I suppose I rather enjoy that.

The tour took about an hour or so, but the time went by very quickly. After the tour we went into the White Tower to view the Armory and to see all of the swords and spears and armor and such. There were two places in the Armory that we found especially fascinating. First was an exhibit about chain mail armor, featuring a full leg chain mail covering, but also including a modern metal glove as commonly used in the meatpacking industry. The leg piece was interesting because you could pick it up and feel the weight and look at the way the links were woven together. The lady there explained that children were often employed to put the chainmail together since they had small, nimble fingers. The metal glove was fun because you could put it on and have some feeling for the protection offered by metal links even today. The second interesting exhibit was a room with interactive displays or ancient weapons. It explained the various uses of various weapons and also included fun things to do like testing your ability to pull an English Longbow or trying to handle a sword hilt while wearing leather and metal gauntlets. Cool!

The Tower of London was a lot of fun, but we eventually got to the point where we felt like we had seen enough. And it was at that point that we embarked upon a quest for what was to be the worst meal we would have in London, the worst meal we have had in Europe, and possibly even the worst meal we have had at any place and at any time. Just outside the Tower of London were a couple of small food stands, both of which offered fish and chips. Now fish and chips is a meal I had very much wanted to enjoy while in England, which is why I insisted that we go to one of the food stands instead of to the Subway just a short distance further. Well I ordered the fish and chips and it was everything I could do to choke the darn stuff down. The fish was greasy, the fries were cold and stale, and my meal was much better than the hot dog that Mose got. I’m not sure if the hot dog was made of pork, beef, or chicken, but I rather doubt it. The mustard they served looked positively artificial and the bun was stale to the point of being crispy! Now just to be fair, Cory rather enjoyed the burger he got, although I thought it looked horrible. And the worst part of all of it is that we paid for that nasty food in Pounds, each one of which is worth 2 dollars!!!! AAAAARRRRGGGG!!!!!!

After getting back to the hotel and doing our best to recover from the awful lunch, we headed out on foot to enjoy the afternoon at Kensington Park, which was just down the road from out hotel. I don’t know about you, but when I think of a park, I think of slides and swing sets and fun things for people to do. That’s not the kind of park that Kensington Park is, though. I suppose that in the Queen’s English, park means green grass and no buildings. Kensington Park was massive and crisscrossed with so many paths and trails that we brought along a map to try not to get too lost. When we were done, we took the Tube home rather than attempt the long walk back to where we started.

Our stated objective in going to Kensington Park was two-fold: we wanted to let the kids have some time outside of a museum to possibly run and play and such, and we wanted to see the famous statue of Peter Pan. The park was adequate, although not ideal, for the first purpose. There was only one playground in the entire park and it was clearly designed for kids aged 5 and under. That didn’t really slow Cory or Sara down very much, but Mose (now 13) this was a great disappointment. There were a lot of wide open spaces, though, and the kids did manage to “run” themselves ragged. The Peter Pan statue was nice enough, but after arriving there I did begin to wonder if it was worth the effort. The park, though, was beautiful and I do think the kids enjoyed being outside for a while after all of the inside time we had enjoyed up to that point.

Friday – National Gallery and the Victoria and Albert Museum
By the time Friday had rolled around we had developed a rather consistent routine and were getting around rather well, in my opinion. Cory had the full English breakfast, which was probably a bit too much food for him, and the rest of us did just fine with our toast and cereal. After breakfast we crossed the street to the Tube station and set off for the National Gallery

The National Gallery is right off of Trafalgar Square, and to be honest the square was impressive enough by itself to make the trip worthwhile. We arrived before the crowds and so we had so pretty good photo opportunities. We didn’t take any photos inside the gallery, but the paintings were stunning. It is always better to see art in person.

About lunchtime we went back to the hotel, grabbed some lunch at KFC, and then walked down the road to the Victoria and Albert Museum (or the V&A). The V&A is a museum quite different from any other museum I have experienced. It’s not an art museum, nor a museum of technology, nor a museum of fashion. I suppose, though, that it seemed like a cross between all of those things.

Mindy especially enjoyed the dresses on display from previous decades or centuries. Mose was bold enough to accompany her, but he seemed to hold up OK. Sara, Cory, and I took the opportunity to be museum investigators. We received investigator kits from a desk near the entrance to the museum and headed to one of the top floors of the museum looking for a gallery that housed different types of antique furniture. Our first task was to go through the gallery looking for different types of material (leather, marble, wood, velvet), then we had to create a stable chair using plastic straws and connectors, and lastly we did a puzzle in the shape of a window from a gothic cathedral.

There was a second quest in our kits that involved listening to a CD and searching for various sculptures in an adjacent gallery. For example, one story on the CD was of the mythical Minotaur and the associated task was to find the Minotaur sculpture in the gallery. My feeling is that for Cory and Sara, the V&A was one of the best museum experiences they have had. Mindy had a wonderful time while we were there, but for Mose it was not that good.

Dinner that night was good. We ate at an Italian place just down the road from our hotel. It wasn’t cheap, but the food was very good.

Saturday – Harrods, Shopping, and Home
Saturday was our day to head home. Mose had the full English breakfast, and then we packed our bags and checked out of our room. The hotel agreed to watch over our luggage for us so that we could make one last outing before heading to the airport for our evening flight back to Germany. Our friend Cari had told us that the Harrod’s department store an experience in and of itself, so we hopped in the Tube, wandered a bit, and eventually came across Harrod’s. That store was the biggest, most expensive, most extravagant store I have ever been in and I have never felt more out of place while shopping. I don’t think there were 3 items in the whole store that I could have afforded, and even if I could I still wouldn’t buy them because they were so grossly overpriced! Granted, the displays and the décor were stunning, but it was not a store for us.

The two things in Harrod’s that we did very much enjoy were both demonstrations. In the toy section was a lady demonstrating some kind of sticker creation kit. The darned thing was 20 Pounds ($40), so I never would have bought it, but it was interesting to watch her create a custom sticker using various films and such. We also saw a demonstration of the game Mario Kart Wii. Everyone but Mindy took a turn and all of us were convinced that it was a game that someday we must have. That, my friends, is very effective marketing. The only reason we didn’t walk out with one is because it wouldn’t have worked with our US system.

For lunch we hit McDonald’s again. Man, I love McDonalds! The food is never spectacular, but it is remarkably consistent, and best of all it’s cheap! After lunch it was time for one more ride on the Tube, but this time back to the airport. Our flight was in the early evening, which means that when we finally got back home, it was quite late.

Overall, London was everything we hoped it would be. The museums were spectacular, the food was expensive, the public transportation was easy, and the memories we made were wonderful. Although, I still think we like Ireland better!

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Photos from London

The Dachau Concentration Camp
I like Germany. In fact I like it a lot. I have always found our German friends and neighbors to be friendly and helpful. It is easy, being surrounded by such wonderful people, to forget the horrific crimes perpetrated by the German’s during WWII. Now that Mindy and I have visited a concentration camp, remembering will be easier.

In early May, the Equal Employment Opportunity office planned a bus trip to the Dachau Concentration Camp in Bavaria. Our entire family had been to the village of Dachau before, when we went to the Deutsches Museum in Munich. We didn’t go to the camp, though, and I would still be disinclined to take my children to such a place. Mindy’s friend simply says that Dachau is evil and refuses to go there.

Dachau was the first such camp established by the National Socialists. Over time it became the model camp that set the standard for how such a camp should be managed. Dachau never became a death camp like Auschwitz, but that does not mean that it was a summer camp either. Gas chambers were built, but not used and when coal was available, the crematorium ran day and night.

Once at the Camp, we each received an audio guide, which is basically just a audio player with easily accessible audio content. There are numbered signs around the Camp. When you see something interesting, you just punch in the number and the audio guide begins to speak. There were commentaries from former prisoners and from liberators (Americans who participated in the liberation of the Camp in 1945). The commentaries were fascinating and sometimes disturbing. I remember one in particular from a liberator. He spoke about walking around the village of Dachau after the Camp had been liberated. Everyone he spoke to proclaimed that they really didn’t know what was going on behind the fences, yet they surely saw the trains full of prisoners and they surely smelled the smoke from the crematorium. The greatest crime in Dachau, I fear, was that so many people simply chose not to notice the evil taking place right under their noses.

One of the most moving buildings was the bunker. The bunker was actually a prison block with a single long hallway with cells on both sides. The cells had the original doors on many of them, which gave the place an authentic, intimidating feel. In many of the cells there were quotes projected onto the cell wall from prisoners who had been in the bunker.

In addition to the bunker, we went through a museum and through a “block where prisoners were housed. We learned that Dachau was used to hold political prisoners, priests, ministers, dissidents, and “undesirables.” We also learned that camps such as Dachau were sold to the public as “work camps.” The sign on the iron gate leading into the camp says “Arbeit machts frei,” or work makes one free. In truth, the camps ended up providing free labor that helped the Nazi’s continue their war. The living conditions and the sanitary conditions were deplorable and disease often ravaged the prison population.

Toward the middle front of the Camp was a most extraordinary sculpture. It was black and very large and when I first looked at it, I couldn’t decide if it was a barbed-wire fence or a mass of human bodies. Closer examination revealed that it was both. The emaciated arms and legs were wires and the outstretched hands and feet were like extended barbs. It was both beautiful and terrible.

My only real complaint about the entire trip was that it was too short. There was more to see and experience than we had time for, given the long bus ride home that we faced. I’m not sure that I would want to go back again, though. It was a very heavy day and I left feeling sad for those who had suffered there and distressed that such evil could be perpetrated here. I’m glad that I did it, but I wouldn’t want to do it again.

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Photos from Dachau

Rick Astley in Concert
Mindy loves music, which makes choosing an anniversary present a very easy thing some times. Last year, you might recall, I bought Mindy tickets to see Michael Buble` in concert. The concert wasn’t until October, but I still took full credit for a good anniversary gift. This past January we came across a website that indicated that Rick Astley would be performing as part of the “Then and Now Tour,” which featured a range of acts that were popular in the 1980’s. We certainly wanted to go, but the only problem was that the nearest venue on the tour was in Birmingham, England. The date for the Birmingham show was 17 May and so I once again bought my wife concert tickets for an anniversary present.

When May finally rolled around, we had bought plane tickets, booked a hotel, and arranged for friends to look after our children. The concert was on a Saturday evening, so we flew to Birmingham on Saturday morning. I had checked on public transportation in Birmingham before we left, but I wasn’t able to make sense of the system from what they had available on the internet. I thought it would be OK, though; surely I would be able to figure it out once we got there! Unfortunately, the reason I couldn’t figure things out from the website was not because the website was poor, but because the transportation system in Birmingham is fundamentally indecipherable! The only way we ever found our way to our hotel was because I, gasp, asked for directions. The directions we received got us to the main station easily enough, but once there I couldn’t figure out which line to get on to get to our next station. The missing line seemed to be managed by a company called “Walk.” It was only when I AGAIN asked for directions that we were informed that we needed to walk from one station to a different station in order to catch the train that went to our hotel. They said there would be signs leading the way, and they did…for almost half of the distance. At that point the signs ceased and we were left once again to my feeble sense of direction. Finally I asked YET AGAIN for directions. What we were told was something like “go into that shopping mall, there, then go downstairs and exit on the far side.” We did eventually make it to our hotel, but my skill at navigating public transportation in an English speaking nation did very little, I’m afraid, to impress the pretty girl I was with.

I am sorry to report that I have now had two trips to England without a decent meal of fish and chips. In Birmingham, though, I did enjoy a very good plate of Japanese noodles. While trying to find a place to eat, we came across a place called “Wagamama.” At first I thought it was an Indian restaurant, but when we took a closer look, we discovered that they specialized in Japanese noodles. There was a line at the door, but with a name like “Wagamama,” I just didn’t think we could pass it up for someplace less busy. The line moved very quickly, though, and we were seated sooner than we expected. I had fried noodles and Mindy had some spicy ramen soup and it was all wonderful. Not only that, but the prices were reasonable. Reasonable! And it wasn’t even McDonalds!

The concert on Saturday evening was wonderful! We arrived early, because that is what we do. We were there early enough that we first had to wait for the venue to even open. Once that happened, we also had time to buy a souvenir program, eat some pizza, and watch almost every other person arrive. When the show finally did start, it was worth every bit of cost and effort. Their were seven acts all together; Cutting Crew, Johnny Hates Jazz, Curiosity Killed the Cat, ABC, Paul Young, Bananarama, and Rick Astley. The came out in that order and each act performed slightly longer than the act before it. Cutting Crew did only three songs, but Rick Astley must have done almost 10.

For me the best part was Curiosity Killed the Cat. I don’t think I have ever heard of this group (well…person) before, but the music was very good. Plus the guy was just a really good dancer. For Mindy, the highlight was clearly hearing Rick Astley. She has been a fan for years and I believe she owns every album he has ever released. He stopped touring a long time ago, so even though Mindy has liked him forever, she has simply never had the chance to see him before. His voice was wonderful. He was funny and self deprecating, and overall entertaining. All in all it was one of the best concert experiences that we have ever had.

Just for the record, Birmingham is a pit. The concert ended about 11:00p, which didn’t seem to late. The one thing we had left to do that day was to find our way home. It wasn’t easy finding our way back to the train station. Eventually we followed the crowds and found it. My impression is that there are a lot of drunk people riding trains in Birmingham on Saturday nights. We rode the train back to the main station, took the walk to the other station, and ran when we saw that there was a train at the platform. We got on the train just before it left, and it’s a good thing we did since when we arrived at the station near our hotel, the security person was their waiting with the gate half closed. As we passed through, he locked up, so I guess we barely caught the last train of the night.

We spent some time on Sunday walking around and waiting for the time to come to fly home. We had checked out of the hotel on Sunday morning and found our way back to the train station near the hotel only to discover that it was locked up. Further investigation revealed that while there are some trains that run on Sunday, our train wasn’t among them. We therefore walked back to the hotel and called for a taxi to the main train station. There was a nice mall in the center of Birmingham, but just about everything else we saw around Birmingham seemed old, decrepit, and decaying. Even the graffiti seemed to have been painted years ago during brighter times. I’m afraid that Birmingham left me unimpressed.

Stuttgart – Wilhelma: Botanical Gardens and Zoo
OK, just one more and then I really need to be done. Just last weekend, we went with our friend Doreen (Hi, Doreen!) to Stuttgart to see the zoo and botanical gardens at a place called Wilhelma. The star attraction there is a baby polar bear named Wilbaer. It’s kind of like Wilber except the w sounds like a v and there is a long a sound in the second syllable. I think that the name is supposed to be a bit of wordplay on the name of the place (Wilhelma) and the fact that he is a bear; hence Wilbaer. The whole point is that polar bear cubs are cute and this was a chance to see one.

The first thing we encountered when we got to Wilhelma was a set of greenhouses. I’ve never been to a botanical garden before, but if this is what they are like I am sold! It was absolutely stunning. They had desert plants, tropical plants, orchids, flowers, palms, and more. Mindy was our acting camera operator and she had a field day. We have more than 300 pictures from our time at Wilhelma and I bet that more than two hundred of them are just of the plants and stuff we saw in the botanical gardens.

Yes, there were other things besides plants. I seem to recall seeing lots of birds and a two-toed sloth. Some of the monkeys were fun to watch. There were elephants (that we only saw from a distance), giraffes, and the peacocks were not the least bit shy (or quiet). Of the animals, though, Wilbaer was the star. When we got to the place where he and his mother reside, there were signs that seemed to indicate how long we would need to wait. My assumption was that the bears came out every once in a while and that we just had to stand there until that happened. Well we learned that my assumption was wrong. Wilbaer and his mother were just on the other side of a large rock, right were we couldn’t see them. They were there for the entire half hour or so that we spent waiting for them to appear. Once we figured out what was going on, we worked our way to a better vantage point and finally got our view. Sure enough, Wibaer was cute!
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Photos from Wilhelma

Zig-Zagging Thoughts
Mose recently had 2 more permanent teeth pulled. This means that Mose this year has lost a grand total of 12 teeth; 10 came out with some help from the dentist (four of which were permanent) and the other two came out on their own…well one did, at least. One came out because Mindy reached in and grabbed it. She’s real good about such things, although Mose was none too thrilled! Sara is still in braces, but the transformation we have already seen has been stunning. Is orthodontia expensive? Yes! Is it worth it? I certainly has been for my daughter! Cory currently has two loose front teeth. Mindy is anxious to get them out! Not because she wants Cory to begin working on growing some permanent teeth, but just because she likes to pull them!

The kids are officially done with school now. Cory did very well and is an excellent reader. Sara got straight A’s during the fourth quarter and made Principal’s Honor Roll. I didn’t quite burst with pride, but I was pretty darn close.

Mose attended a thing called the Tech Fair earlier in the spring. He came home with multiple prizes and awards. Apparently he has been a genius all along and we have always just thought he was a nice kid. He and a partner worked on a bridge that took the top prize for the bridge building competition. Yes, I know…pride is a sin, but how can I help myself! These kids are just wonderful!

Seminary is over for the year and so I am growing my beard as quickly as I can. It looks like I will be teaching Seminary next year also, which makes me very, very happy. Sure it’s a challenge having a lesson ready every day (on top of a full time job), but I have never had a church assignment that was so completely satisfying. I’d be glad to do this forever! Um...well...as long as I can always have the summers off.

And of course in just a few days we will be heading stateside for 5 weeks of running around and trying to see everyone we can. I fully expect that this trip will be an adventure of such magnitude that it will merit an entry in and of itself. If you are on the list of folks in California, Utah, Nevada, or Idaho that we are coming to see, then know that we are anxious to see you. For all of those that we won’t be able to see this time, know that we love you and miss you and we will find our way back to the east coast eventually.

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Notes from Germany, Vol.19, 30 October 2007

Dear Friends and Family:

Well we are nearly two months into the new school year and yet you have likely not heard a peep from me. That should not be construed as meaning that nothing exciting has been happening in our family. The truth is, in fact, that things have been quite exciting.

Of Frying Pans and Fires
For those of you with a working knowledge of Mormon culture, it will have some meaning when I say that after nearly four years (and a grand total of five bishoprics) I am no longer a counselor in a bishopric. I was released in early September so that I could become a Seminary teacher.

And for all of you who have no idea what the heck I am talking about, here’s a little rundown. A Mormon congregation, or ward, is led by a three man team called a bishopric. A bishopric is composed of a Bishop, who is the guy finally responsible for the ward, and two counselors, who work with the Bishop in the administration of the ward. To be in a bishopric is both terribly difficult and terribly rewarding.

A Seminary teacher is simply a youth instructor. Mormon high school students are offered the opportunity to attend an early morning religion class, called Seminary, prior to heading off to school. Our Seminary begins each day at 06:20 so that the youth can be on their way to school by 07:05. Seminary is held every day that there is school. I’ve been a Seminary teacher now for about 2 months and I can say with complete honesty that it has been both terribly difficult and terribly rewarding.

If you ask if I prefer one or the other, I would probably choose Seminary teacher because I do love to teach. As far as the difficulty of the two assignments, being in a bishopric was challenging because there are just so many people to be concerned for, but being a Seminary teacher is hard because I need to have a lesson prepared for almost every day. The spiritual benefits of both assignments are significant. Regardless of what I am asked to do I find that service in the church helps me to feel closer to my God and better about my contributions to this world. I haven’t figured out if I’m in the frying pan or the fire, but I’m sure I’ll be pulled out just as soon as I am “done.”

Michael Buble` in Concert
Last May was our 15th wedding anniversary. As a present for Mindy I bought us a pair of tickets to see Michael Buble` (MB) when he came to Mannheim in October. The concert was only a few nights ago and it was wonderful! Mindy was introduced to MB’s music by a friend and Mindy subsequently shared her new found interest with me. His music is mostly in the style of crooners such as Frank Sinatra or Dean Crosby, or more contemporarily Harry Connick, Jr.

We actually ended up with very good seats in my opinion. We were on the left side of the stage, on a level such that we were looking slightly down on the show. The venue was quite nice and I was surprised by the reasonable prices that they charged for food.


The show was sold out, but there were still empty seats when the lights went out. During the opening act, people continued to arrive and fumble their way to their seats. That’s really too bad because the opening act was amazing! It was an a cappella group from New York called Naturally7. What they were able to do without instruments was AMAZING! The best part was when they did their introductions. As each person in the group was introduced they would do a solo for a particular instrument; bass guitar, guitar, drums, harmonica, and etc. Each performer sounded just like the instrument they were imitating and when they all joined in together it sounded just like a band. Incredible!


When the curtain went up and MB came out the crowd was remarkably restrained. There was polite applause, but nothing too raucous. I’m not sure if it was a cultural thing, or if it was just because most of us there were middle aged adults. MB made a point that his shows are attended primarily by women, but that the men that were there would get extra points for coming with. I, myself, thought that he was delightfully entertaining. He was funny in a self deprecating way and charming too.

MB was backed by a band that was composed of musicians that were both talented and engaging. They were actually quite a large part of the show and there were a couple of times where the band was allowed to take the spotlight altogether with MB. The effect of that is that MB comes across as being humble, kind, and down to earth. It may be that it was all for show, but I sure felt convinced. There were a couple of times where the band was allowed to take the spotlight altogether with MB.

Overall the entire evening was wonderful. It was a very happy memory that Mindy and I made, and it was all the better because it was just the two of us. I’m just glad that she’s still willing to date me!

Like Pulling Teeth
We have known for some time that Mose would require extensive orthodontia, but his need was not as pressing as Sara’s, so we delayed starting his while Sara went through the first part of hers. Earlier this year we decided to get the ball rolling for Mose also. We took Mose to the Orthodontist, who made molds of Mose’s teeth and took some x-rays. The first thing that needed to be done was to pull some teeth.

In fact it was not just some teeth, but 6 teeth altogether, 2 of which were permanent. We received a referral form from the orthodontist to go back to the dentist for the extractions. I believe that the purpose of the referral form was to be certain that the correct teeth were pulled. Mose was certainly nervous about this whole thing. He has never been fold of pulling his own teeth and the idea of getting a shot first, then having some teeth pulled was not at all appealing.

Well we made the appointment with the dentist and when the day came, Mindy took Mose in fully expecting that he would come home with at least 3 less teeth than he left with. Well that was not to be as they left the referral form at home and our good dentist declined to take a chance on which teeth the orthodontist really wanted out. Strike one.

We made another appointment with the dentist, but by this time Mose had had plenty of time to imagine what a terrifying and horrible experience this was going to be. Mindy took him in to the dentist, expecting again that Mose would come home with at least 3 less teeth than he left with. Well that was not to be this time either. When the dentist did the first injection, Mose quickly lost color, his breathing and his heart rate changed, and the poor dentist probably thought for a moment that he was about to lose one. After monitoring Mose for an hour or so to be certain that he wasn’t about to drop dead, they sent him home, teeth intact, with a recommendation to see a “specialist.” We’re still not absolutely certain if Mose’s reaction was to the Novocain or to the needle, but we are certain that this was strike two.

We next made an appointment to see the specialist, Dr. Dr. Schwartz. I still don’t understand why in America we only have Dr.s, but in Germany they have Dr. Dr.s. Perhaps that means he is twice as good? Whatever the case it was me that took Mose to the Dr. Dr. this time and it was, of course, fully expecting that Mose would come home with fewer teeth than he left with. Unfortunately the appointment with the good Dr. Dr. was only a consultation so that he could discuss the possibility of general anesthesia with us. You know what that means, don’t you…strike three.

Some people would have given up after the third strike, but we remained determined to reduce the number of teeth in my son’s mouth! I, myself, liked the idea of general anesthesia, so we made a return appointment to see Dr. Dr. Schwartz. I picked Mose up from school (again) and took him to the Dr. Dr. They began with a tranquilizer of some sort that was supposed to help Mose relax. It didn’t really help much and I suspect we may have received a placebo. Next they hooked him up to an IV, a process which Mose REALLY didn’t like. And finally they knocked him right out. I left the room at that point so that they could pull his teeth without the hovering father watching. When the Dr. Dr. came to see me about 15 minutes later he said, “We…we…we decided to pull 8 teeth instead of 6.” I suppose I looked rather surprised, so the Dr. Dr. explained that there were two baby teeth not on the list that were so loose that they nearly came out anyway. So I guess in the end we came out ahead. It took us four tries, but in the end we got a bag with 8 teeth in it instead of just 6.

Mose is recovering from this event rather well. Chewing is a bit complicated because of the large gaps between his incisors and his molars, but several permanent teeth are already visible trying to grown in. It won’t be too long before everything is back to normal, mouth-wise. Of course at that point we’ll probably be putting on braces. I sure hope it’s not like pulling teeth.

Spock is Dead
Our good friends Cari and Ken Bargamento are in the process of moving to Spanish Fork, Utah. In the process of moving they have been getting rid of some of the things that are no longer necessary, for example VHS tapes of movies that they now have on DVD. While helping Cari and Ken one day I noticed that some of the VHS tapes they were disposing of were of the Star Trek movies. I rather liked those movies when I was younger and I thought it might be fun to share those memories and movies with my kids. I asked if I might take them and of course they said yes.

We watched the first movie a couple of weeks ago. It was OK, but there were a lot of shots just looking at stuff and not a lot of action (read that ‘violence’). I told the kids that the second movie would be much more to their liking. We watched the second show the next week and the kids really enjoyed that one, especially Sara. At the end of the second movie, though, Spock dies. Sara was very firm on the idea that Spock was not “really” dead because I had spoken about Spock learning to cuss in the fourth movie. I insisted, however, that Spock was indeed dead.

As a father I feel it is my responsibility to show my affection for my children by teasing them mercilessly, and the ‘Spock is dead’ was a delightful teasing opportunity for Sara. Every time I saw her I would casually remark, “Spock is dead,” to which Sara would respond with ever increasing enthusiasm, “but he’s not permanently dead!!!” One night I kissed her good night and as I walked down the stairs I simply said “Dead.” Sara shouted back “NOT dead!” And we continued going back and forth until I was nearly to the basement (remember, Sara lives at the very top of our house).

After several days of enduring this abuse, we finally had an opportunity to watch the 3rd movie, “The Search for Spock.” During this movie Spock is miraculously restored and at the end of the movie he is as alive as he has ever been. The movie was quite enjoyable, but the best part for me was a while after the movie was over as Sara and I discussed what we enjoyed about the movie. I put my arm around her and in my most fatherly voice said “See, I told you Spock wasn’t ‘really’ dead.” Poor Sara almost came unhinged. I myself cannot remember a tease that was so well set up and so well executed. Sara and I laughed ourselves silly and it still makes me smile to think about it.

Almost Speaking German
Cory is now in the second year of a German Immersion program. At school, half of the curriculum is taught in German and the other half in English. Cory’s teacher is a delightful, kind, and talented person and we feel that this experience has been very good for Cory. I confess, though, that I sometimes wonder how much he is learning. Lately there have been a couple of events that have demonstrated that he is, indeed, learning something.

Several weeks ago Cory’s class took a field trip to a Farmer’s Market. The primary purpose of this trip was to provide the class with opportunities to speak in German with native speakers. Each child was given a list of things to ask or do, some of which seemed surprising difficult. Cory accomplished everything on his list, even to the point of buying seedless grapes from one of the vendors. It makes me quite proud!

We recently had another event that demonstrated that Cory is indeed learning some German. The receptionist at the orthodontist’s office does not speak very much English. This makes a simple task like making an appointment rather difficult. The last time Sara was in to see the orthodontist, Mindy was trying to make a return appointment, but didn’t understand what it was that the receptionist was trying to convey. Cory did understand, though, and said “She wants to know if 3:30 would be OK.” Mindy then said yes and everything was set.

Mose has been in a German class this year and seems to be learning quite a bit also. I worry that this might not be a good thing, though. The other day Mose and Cory were doing homework at the dinner table when Mose casually remarked to Cory, “If we both learn German well, we could speak German to each other.” The implication being that Mom and Dad would not understand. I guess I need to work harder at picking up the language!

Zig-Zagging Thoughts
I keep waiting for the day when I wake up only to discover that I no longer like living in Germany or I no longer like my job here, but that simply hasn’t happened yet. I continue to feel like I’m living the dream. It used to be that I said I liked this job better than any job I have had since Disneyland, but I’m starting to think that maybe I might even like this job better than working at Disneyland. I am always amazed at how blessed we seem to be. I feel sometimes like if I looked up, I would see the windows of heaven opened and the blessings pouring down! We are a very happy family, right now, although you might want to check back with me once we have a teenager or two.



















Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Notes from Germany, Vol.18, 31 July 2007

Dear Friends and Family,

OK, here is the upfront summary of the highlights: since my last update the family went fishing with friends, Mindy and I have attended a cooking class in Italy, our family went to Garmisch (in the German Alps) with friends for a weekend getaway, and Mose and I attended Scout camp together in Switzerland. Amazingly, those are just the highlights. Life has continued at it’s fast and furious pace and I still have trouble keeping up.

Fishing with John and Pat
Our good friends John and Pat love to fish! In Germany, though, fishing is more complicated that buying a fishing license and baiting a hook. Like everything else, the Germans take fishing very seriously and getting a license to fish is no easy thing. Fortunately for all of us, John and Pat had learned about a private fishing pond a bit south of us in the Black Forest. And just so you know, “private” means no license is required.

I took a day off of work for our trip because I hoped things would be less busy that way. We all gathered together at John a Pat’s house. We brought along snacks and drinks. John and Pat supplied the fishing rods, hooks, bait, and nets. Luckily for us we all fit nicely in the van and the trip down really didn’t take very long at all. Looking back, it probably would have been better for us to leave earlier than we did. As it was, we didn’t really start fishing until almost 10:00a.

The thing about fishin’ with kids is that for the most part the kids end up doing most of the fishing because the adults spend their time setting up fishing equipment, baiting hooks, casting lines, giving words of encouragement, and going from kid to kid checking up on them. John, by far the most qualified angler among us, barely got to wet a line. My kids, though, were the direct beneficiaries of his skill and hard work. It was almost exclusively John who did all of the leg work associated with getting people to fish and he did it all with cheer and efficiency. He even got Mindy to fish!

Mose and Sara and Cory each had a chance to catch a fish. Sara in fact caught two. Cory’s fish was the biggest and he was by far the most excited about his catch. The adults all had a chance or two to cast a line, but without much success. Pat hooked a couple of small ones, one of which we kept because it had swallowed the hook.

John had brought both meal worms and corn for bait. We had much better success with the corn, perhaps because it was easier for the fish to see. The water in the pond was very clear and it was quite fun to spot a fish in the water, cast the line out, and then try to drag the bait right by the fish’s nose. As I said before, though, we had started late and by about 11:00a, we had caught about all of the fish we were going to catch.

The place where we fished took our fish and cleaned them off for us before we headed for home. This does not mean that they “cleaned” them, it simply means that they washed them off a bit. The also gladly sold us a few extra fish since it was obvious that we didn’t catch enough fish to feed the whole lot of us. Oh, I forgot to mention that Pat had volunteered to cook any fish that we caught.

We made the trip back to John and Pat’s house in short order and Pat and John headed off to the kitchen to begin preparations for a mid-afternoon meal. Sara was quite excited about the prospect of cleaning the fish. She found the prospect of blood and guts to be quite appealing. The rest of us, however, were quite content to watch a movie.

The meal was scrumptious! Pat is a wonderful cook and everything was delicious. What surprised me the most, though, was how much the kids enjoyed the fish. I rather thought they would be a bit squeamish about eating something that they had seen squirming just a short time before. I was wrong, though, and happily so. The meal provided a delightful end to a delightful day.

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Cooking Class in Italy
Some time ago our friend Doreen told us about a cooking class she had heard about being offered in Italy. It sounded interesting so we did a bit of investigation. We determined that the class was relatively inexpensive. It was taught Friday through Monday, which minimized the amount of time off it would require. It was in Italy, which I thought was totally cool. And Doreen was going, which made the prospect of a trip to Italy to learn some cooking a bit less intimidating.

When Mindy and I talked about the possibility of going to this class, one of the things we discussed was the fact that this class would be in relative proximity to our 15th wedding anniversary. We therefore decided that we would do this trip to Italy as an anniversary celebration. That made sense because we were going to need to ask folks to look after the kids anyway. I, myself, am quite pleased to be able to say that for our 15th anniversary, I took my wife to Italy!

There were actually four of us that went down together: Mindy, myself, Doreen, and Doreen’s friend Claudia. Since it was just the four of us, we fit fairly comfortably into our van. The drive down was about 8 hours of drive time, but that doesn’t account for refueling, eating, and bathroom breaks. It also doesn’t account for the stops we made to look at shops selling Italian porcelain and pottery. I went with the ladies into the first store, but after that I stayed behind in the car. Fortunately for me, I had brought Sara’s portable DVD player and I was able to occupy my time by watching the Lord of the Rings.

The class was offered in the Italian village of Gallio, which is on the Asiago Plateau. It’s not quite in the Alps, but it was still high enough up that a series of 18 switchbacks had to be negotiated in order to get there. The views were impressive, but I tried not to look too much for fear of taking the short route back to the bottom. I believe that all of us in the car experienced at least a little bit of motion sickness.

We arrived in Gallio on Thursday evening, got checked in and had supper with the rest of the class. I must say that all of the food that they served us was wonderful. The rooms were very nice too; quite large by European standards.

We began the cooking class the next morning. It worked a little differently than I had expected. I rather thought that we would all be at independent stoves getting practical experience. Instead we had a single kitchen on a slightly raised platform where our chef would do the cooking while we watched. The chef was very talented and very willing to answer any question that was asked. There were some activities that allowed more participation, for example making gnochis, and lots of students would go up to the front to take part. Mindy was not the least bit shy about giving anything a try.

As part of the class we all received a recipe book that had all of the dishes that the Chef would be demonstrating. As the Chef cooked, he would explain what he was doing and why. Since he was speaking Italian and we were all Americans, a translator was required. Our translator was a British woman named Nikki. Nikki was quite good at what she did. I do think, though, she could have done much better without the help of Mrs. Pisoni (who I believe put the class together). Mrs. Pisoni was an older woman with very strong feelings about what is healthy and what is not. Our Chef had no compunctions about adding a little extra olive oil, cheese, or meat, but Mrs. Pisoni always pointed out that it is the cook’s responsibility to ensure that those that eat, eat well. At the end of each demonstration, samples were passed out to all of the students. The food was always wonderful and I was left with the feeling that the Chef’s way was much better than Mrs. Pisoni’s way.

The classes were actually only offered in the mornings. During most afternoons we were allowed to wander freely. On one afternoon, we took a trip with Doreen to Verona. On another afternoon the entire class went porcelain shopping. Lucky for us they agreed to drop us off at a little village called Marostica.

I learned at Verona that this city is rather famous for at least two things: this is where the story of Romeo and Juliet took place and the 3rd largest coliseum in the Roman Empire was built here. We were quite fortunate to have Doreen with us. She has traveled extensively and she is quite comfortable using maps to find her way around an unfamiliar city.

The Roman coliseum was very impressive. It’s amazing to stand in a place like that and know that it was made hundreds of years ago. Even more amazing was the fact that the coliseum is still in use. In fact, while we were there they were setting things up for a concert by The Who! Amazing!

Now I know that the story of Romeo and Juliet is fiction, but try explaining that to the folks in Verona. If I understand correctly, they believe that the story of Romeo and Juliet was based on actual events. There is a house in Verona that is called the Juliet house. It has a balcony, a statue of Juliet, and a couple of walls that folks use to post love notes. For the most part, the love notes are written on paper, then stuck to the wall with chewing gum. Amazing, isn’t it, how many things are both very romantic AND very unsanitary!

Our trip to Marostica was also quite fun. I don’t get the impression that Marostica is truly “famous” for anything. They did have a giant chess board in the town square, though. The story is that a long time ago two young men were in love with the same young woman. In order to determine who would have the hand of the fair maiden, the two young men played a game of chess…using real people on a life-sized chess board. In our opinion, though, the two best things about Marostica were the quilt shop we discovered and the ceramic shop where we got to see a demonstration by a very talented artist.

The quilt shop was of special interest to Mindy and Doreen as both of them are quilters. Mindy was especially pleased to come upon a book of quilted items to make and give as baby gifts. She was so excited by this book that she had to have it right then even though it was certain that she could have gotten it cheaper online. The irony of that book is that it was published in Provo, Utah. So my wife, who lives in Germany, traveled to Italy to buy a book that was published in Provo, Utah.

The ceramic shop was another lucky find. We were just wandering about when we cam across it. We stepped inside and the proprietor invited us over to give us a demonstration. His English was very poor, but we could tell he was doing his best. He was trying to tell us that he would make a daisy, but the English name escaped him. So instead of talking he just started working. Within moments it was clear what he was doing. It was also incredible the way he could take those little pieces of clay and put them together into a simple, yet beautiful object.

Having now completed our first Italian cooking class, you’d think that Mindy and I would be experts. Well we are not. We still haven’t tried any of the recipes here at home, not even the most simple. We did bring back some peppers from Italy, which seemed to be in about everything we made. And we did learn some very interesting things. For example many Italian recipes will give a quantity of a particular ingredient as QB, which I believe means quanto basta or as much as you like. I also learned that we Americans dreadfully overcook our pasta. Correctly cooked pasta should be al dente, which I believe means toothy or chewy.

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Garmisch with Ken and Cari
Well I am very sad to say that our good friends Ken and Cari Bargamento will very soon be leaving Germany. They have bought a home in Spanish Fork which is very near the grandchildren. In Cari’s opinion that makes it the most wonderful place in the world. It will be good for us also, though, because we’ll have someone else to visit when we are in that part of the world.

We had all wanted to do a trip together before Ken and Cari officially left so we had planned a weekend getaway to Garmisch. The nice thing about Garmisch is that the Army runs a resort down there. The prices are reasonable and they have American style amenities. We made reservations for two rooms; one for Ken and Cari and one for all of us Tillett’s. We tried to convince Ken and Cari that they would be much happier with the kids in their room, but they were unconvinced.

On the way down we decided to stop and see Castle Neuschwannstein since me and the kids had never been there. It was rather rainy, though, when we got there so we took a picture or two and hopped back in the car. Our next stop was the Castle Linderhof. Both castles were built by the Bavarian king often referred to as Ludwig the Mad. Having learned a bit about him, I’m no longer surprised by that name. The guy was seriously around the bend. The Castle Neuschwannstein was started, but never actually finished, so the place that Ludwig spent most of his time was at the Linderhoff. Both the castle and the gardens are stunningly beautiful, but there were a couple of things that highlighted what I now perceive as Ludwigs poor mental condition. The table where he liked to eat was a bit like a lift. The table could move back and forth between the top floor and the basement. Ludwig would sit at the top floor while his meal was loaded onto the table in the basement. Once the meal was in place, the table would be raised to the top floor so that Ludwig could eat without the distraction of other human beings. I also learned that Ludwig preferred a schedule that had him up all night and sleeping in the day. At some time before Castle Neuschwannstein was complete, Ludwig died under suspicious conditions. Suspicious because he drowned in about 80 centimeters of water…accompanied by his physician (who also drowned)…and Ludwig was a swimmer. Hmmm…

The next day we took a drive towards Berchtesgaden to the Koenigsee. The Koenigsee is a big lake high in the Alps that is both isolated and beautiful. We took a boat tour of the lake which provided some spectacular views and got back to the shore just as it was starting to rain again.

There is no doubt about it; our first two days of this trip were long and difficult. We have learned, though, that the most difficult day can be made nearly perfect by saying just three words: “Let’s go swimming!” The best thing about Edelweiss, the Army resort we stayed at, is that they have a good sized indoor pool. So we swam on the first night we arrived and we swam again after our second day. We even got up early on our third day so that we could swim again before we went home.

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Scout Camp in Switzerland
As I recall, one of the best things about turning 12 was that I was able to go to Scout camp. Since Mose turned 12 I have been anticipating this new adventure for him. I did not originally expect, though, that it would become an adventure for me also. Several weeks before Scout camp I was approached by one of the Scout leaders and asked if I would be willing to go along. I indicated that I was doing my best to spend the entire summer at work so that I could save up my leave for our big trip home in the summer of 2008. I then learned that a dearth of adult leadership was putting the entire Scout camp event at risk. I agreed to go.

Now I have never been an avid camper. I have always felt that there were certain skills and abilities that made camping fun that I simply lacked. I worried about Scout camp because I knew that we would be living in tents, cooking our own meals, showering infrequently, and on top of that it was only going to be myself and Brent Clark looking after 8 boys ranging from 12 at the youngest to nearly 18 at the oldest. Oh, and I also worried about the possibility of rain.

And that’s OK, because even though we got there on Saturday afternoon, the rain didn’t really begin until Sunday afternoon and it had stopped completely by the time Thursday morning had rolled around. I guess that adds up to about 5 days of rain out of 8 days of camping, but everyone I have spoken to says that’s about par for the course. The good news for me and Mose was that we had good boots that kept our feet dry, we had a good tent that kept our sleeping bags dry, we had ponchos to keep ourselves dry, and we had two dining flies to keep our food dry. All in all it wasn’t really that bad. Between me and Mose, though, I am certain that I did the most whining.

The fact of the matter is that even with the rain, the Kandersteg area of Switzerland is beautiful. It’s a high alpine valley within view of a couple of glaciers. The houses and buildings in the village of Kandersteg were fun to see. We were also right next to a railway tunnel that goes under the alps for many kilometers, coming out further south, near Italy.

As I said earlier, we arrived on Saturday afternoon and we counted it a great blessing that it was sunny that day. We got our campsite completely set up while everything was still dry. I expect that it is probably much easier to start dry and stay dry rather than to start wet and try to become dry. On Saturday evening, the meal was canned stew that we had brought along with us.

Sunday morning was our first real camp cooked meal. We had ziplock bag omelets. To make a ziplock back omelet, you simply crack some eggs into a ziplock back, add anything else you might want like cheese, ham, onions, mushrooms, then set the sealed bag into a pot of boiling water. The best part of this meal was speculating about what could go wrong with a recipe like this. Someone commented that you wouldn’t want to add raw bacon because it wouldn’t really cook all the way. In that case you would just end up with hot soggy bacon and greasy eggs. Personally, I think that would make an excellent name for a band: introducing “Hot Soggy Bacon and the Greasy Eggs!” Yeah!

Sunday morning we also held a worship service on a grassy hill with an alpine waterfall in the background. In my opinion it was a very moving place to have a spiritual experience. There were just the 10 of us, 8 boys and 2 leaders, but we had an excellent meeting regardless. I can’t remember a more wonderful meeting at any place with any number of people. Amazingly, we had blue skies and sunshine until just as our meeting ended. Shortly after we returned to camp, the rain began.

Our boys were roughly divided into two groups. The older boys were planning on doing high adventure activities such as long challenging hikes and white water rafting. The younger boys were going to be working on merit badges. Wednesday was scheduled as a Troop day, so there were to be no high adventures or merit badge classes that day.

Monday morning dawned cool and rainy. It was my task that day to go with the older boys on a hike. Unfortunately for some of the boys, the guides were fastidious regarding required equipment, good boots being the prime example. Of the 5 boys that were scheduled to go on the hike, 2 were not likely to be allowed. One of the boys had brought hiking “shoes,” not boots. Another had set his boots too close to the fire to dry and damaged them beyond use. We took it, therefore, as a spot of good news when we learned that the hike had been canceled as so much rain had made many trails downright dangerous.

The younger Scouts were all working on the same four merit badges: Geology, Photography, Leatherwork, and Emergency Preparedness. Mose and I had each brought a camera anticipating the Photography merit badge, but one of the other boys didn’t have a camera with him. For that reason I lent him mine. I suppose that’s a good thing, for even with my limited access to my camera, I still shot an awful lot of pictures.

Brent Clark, the “real” Scout leader, had volunteered to go white water rafting with the older boys on Tuesday, but that activity was first delayed, then finally cancelled. Why, you might ask? Because of rain, of course. There had been so much rain by then that the river they were to raft was running dangerously high. Since these activities are supposed to be “high adventure,” not “death defying,” they chose to err on the side of safety. For the older boys, though, this was not happy news. They had a grand total of three high adventure events planned and two of them had already been canceled. Oh, yeah…and it was still raining.

The only redeeming quality to that Tuesday was the discovery of a delightful backerei in the village of Kandersteg. I had wondered into town with the older boys since they didn’t have much better to do. I myself was looking for a new air mattress, since mine seemed to have died. I am grateful to say that we found an air mattress, but I must say that the backerei was even better. When we first got to the backerei, there were just three of us as three had gone off in another direction. I wasn’t too impressed with what I saw so I just bought a chocolate covered pretzel. Brandon, though, picked up one of these little strawberry pie looking things. I could tell by watching Brandon’s face as he bit into it that I had made a mistake not buying the only one left in the display case. Fortunately for me, Brandon told the other boys about the wonderful backerei and we all went back. This time I did get the last of the strawberry pie things and it was wonderful! It was the best tasting strawberry pie looking thing I have ever eaten!

Wednesday was the day that had been predicted would be the beginning of nicer weather. It wasn’t. The day started with rain, progressed as far as grey and misty, then reverted back to rain by bedtime. By the time Wednesday came around, though, we were so used to the rain that we barely even noticed it.

Wednesday was our Troop day and the plan was for us to all hike up to a glacier fed lake higher up one of the side valleys. It would be an all day event, but we expected it would be worthwhile because they had toboggans near the lake and we knew they would be a hit. The hike actually took us a little more than two hours on the way up. Brent Clark led the way with the more athletic boys. I stayed to the back to sweep up anyone who fell too far behind. I worried a bit about Mose since he’s so small, but he kept up just fine. He was never all the way at the front, but he was never the last either.

Once at the lake, we ate our lunches, we enjoyed some Ice Cream, and then trundled off to find the toboggans. After about a half hour of wondering we finally found them. We all rode down three times. We would have loved to have done more, but it was too expensive. Instead we walked back toward the lake where we performed a small bit of service by picking up trash and debris left by other hikers.

I must say that we really did have an extraordinary group of boys with us. The Kandersteg International Scout Center, where we were staying, provides more than ample opportunity for mischief. There are loads of nearby caves and waterfalls. The village is right next store. Plus most Scout groups from other countries are co-ed. Boys inclined to get into trouble surely could have gotten into trouble.

So why would I be talking about trouble at this time? Because while we were at the glacier lake, six of the boys wanted to hike a bit further around the lake. Brent and I agreed that would be fine as long as they were back by 16:00. 16:00 was as late as we were comfortable with heading down because we needed to be back in time to pick up our daily rations, plus there was an opportunity for some of us to go to the village pool for some water fun. When 16:00 came, though, no one had returned. At 16:10, two of the boys returned, but the others had decided to continue. It seems they were not keen on swimming so they felt no urgency to be back.

Well I was pretty ticked. With the single exception of Mose, none of the boys with us had ever really seen me angry before. They seemed a bit surprised. My initial response was a call for summary execution, but Brent prevailed upon me to administer mercy, not just justice. In the end we agreed that the offenders would do evening chores on Thursday and Friday night, which they did.

On Thursday the sun came out and things seemed to be looking up. The older boys (except for two) went with Brent Clark on a hike to a high alpine cheesery where they were treated to farm fresh milk and real Swiss cheese. I stayed at the camp most of that day trying to dry all of the things that had become wet over the previous five days.

Friday was a good day too. The older boys caught a break because their white water rafting trip was successfully rescheduled for Friday afternoon. The younger Scouts wrapped up their merit badges that day having completed the requirements for all for merit badges. As for me, I took a ride on a tram to a high alpine valley where I enjoyed spectacular views, but also discovered that my blisters from Wednesday had not yet healed.

On Saturday we got up, packed up, loaded up, and headed up the highway for home. The camp food, incidentally, was quite good. We had a cucumber salad one evening that I still dream about sometimes. The boys all did a fine job with the cooking and cleaning. I will admit, though, that I was quite happy to stop at the German border and eat at McDonald’s. Sleeping in my own bed that night was just as wonderful as I had dreamed it would be for the whole time I was in Switzerland.

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Zig-Zagging Thoughts
I am very pleased to note that the state which we live in, Baden –Wuerttemberg, recently passed a law banning smoking in almost all public buildings and places. It’s not quite as strict as the law passed in Ireland, but it certainly will make things better than they have been. The law goes into effect on 1 August and I can’t wait.

Mose, Sara, and Cory continue to improve their swimming. Cory has especially benefited from the time we have spent with Ken and Cari. Cory and Ken get along famously and Ken’s help and encouragement have done wonders for Cory. He seemed to go from non-swimmer to swimmer overnight.

The other day I took my Mini into the shop because it was overheating. The problem was a faulty thermostat, which was easily replaced. It does make me wonder a bit, though, since my little car only has about 40K miles on it. When I went to pick it up I was delighted to see that they had left a placard on the steering wheel that simply said "I missed you!" It was a very simple thing to do, and I know that my car didn't really miss me, but I couldn't help but feel wonderful about my car again. Do I still love my Mini? Oh, yes I do!

Just one last thought and then I'm done. The weather here lately has been positively divine! There has been just enough rain that I haven't needed to water the grass and the rest of the days have been sunny and blue. Temperatures for the last several days have topped out at about 75 degrees, which for July is absolutely stunning. Just another reason to feel blessed, I guess.

Love from all!
Russ, Mindy, Mose, Sara, and Cory